Tuesday, May 21, 2019

I AM A DAUGHTER

I am a daughter and since childhood I’ve been told,
That my parents won't age, they won't grow old.

They won't get tired standing in a queue,
Afterall running a house is an easy thing to do.

They won't fall ill and just in case they do,
They will take care of themselves, without much ado!

They won't need their daughter on festivals or occasions;
Aren't they used to being alone in their low key celebrations?

They are human and may get insecure, anxious or bored;
But loneliness is a luxury they simply cannot afford!

They would have planned their finances well ahead in time.
As they believe "Taking daughter's money is a crime".

They would look forward to vacation all through the year;
When their life would have a meaning as their daughter would be near.

And when the time comes, they will bid goodbye without grimace;
Since they've embraced parting as a way of life with grace.

Their souls may long to see their daughter, and their hearts might weep.
But they know their daughter has duties and promises to keep.

Unlike a son's parents, a daughter's parents don't grow old;
They just become stronger by the day with their responsibilities to hold.

And in case if a daughter looks after her parents, they are often told,
"Oh, how lucky you are - You have got a son to behold!"

Monday, March 11, 2019

I Am A New Mom

If you are looking at my unkempt hair,
If my disheveled clothes are inviting your stare 🤨
I want you to know that I don't  care.💁

I may choose to deliver naturally or go under the knife 🔪
It's my decision, it's my body, it's my life 💃

I may choose to give formula or choose to breastfeed;🍼
Your advice is something I certainly don't need 😷

I may choose to give a pacifier or rock my baby to sleep;🤱
The choices are mine and their consequences I keep 😎

I may choose to go back to work or choose to stay at home.👩‍💻
All I know is I won't adhere to the norm 👩‍🎤

I may choose to shout for help or do it all by myself,👧
That does not make me lesser of a woman or a magical elf 🧝‍♀

I may hire a nanny or seek support from family,🏠
My choices do not define my intent or capability 💪

I may practice co-sleeping or I may get a separate cot.🛏
I won't deal with judgements, when I am already dealing with a lot 🙄

I may or may not allow television, mobile or gadgets,📲
And I won't carry the baggage of guilt or regrets 👜

I am doing the best for my family, in the given situation 👨‍👩‍👧
Neither am I seeking your approval, nor your validation.✔

I am learning to be a better Mom every single day.💁
And though it is super difficult, I know I'll find my way 😇

Every child is unique and so is every Mom!👼
Every journey is special in its own unique form! 🛣